Happiness is not a life goal
“Live a happy life” and “May you always be happy” are some of the most common deceptive wishes due to their unrealistic nature. Happiness is not a life goal.
How to stay committed to your goals
Staying committed to your goals requires constant self-convincing in your actions. Why do I need to stay committed?
The Dreamer: turning a passion into a profession
to turn his passion into his profession through relentless hard work, consistency, love and respect for the art and his clients.
To-do lists
A today-list, on the other hand, satisfies all the elements of a SMART goal: it is specific, measurable, attainable, relevant and timely. And provides immediate results of success and fulfilment.
Fear of commitment
Past trauma is one reason for commitment-phobia. Childhood trauma or traumatic experiences from past romantic relationships. A parents’ unpleasant separation during one’s childhood or, later, a toxic/abusive/infidel relationship can cause phobia for future commitment.